Has anyone else noticed how hard it is to find a friendship that is worth a darn? I have an idea of what kind of friendships I want in my life (with knowledge that I have to be open minded), but no one seems to be up to the task! Why is it so hard to be loyal, outgoing, open, honest, fun, etc.? I don’t get it! It’s like my age group is one of two extremes….married with children (married part is cool cause I am too! But the constant need of a babysitter is like dang…guess we can’t hang with them tonight!) or they are party hardy! (I enjoy a nice glass of wine like the next person…but I don’t live for blacking out and throwing up). Where is the in between!? The percentage of people like me? Young, married, likes to chill (not too crazy, but not a snooze feat either), and can talk about any and everything without shying away? I didn’t think it would be that hard to find….boy am I wrong! It’s rough out there, and every time I think I found a match….something doesn’t quite fit. I waited 19 years to find my husband…and 5 more just to marry him. Am I gonna have to do the same to find a friend? Maybe I really am asking too much….or maybe it really is time to have a baby like everyone keeps telling me, so I can have play dates. Ugh! Making babies to make friends?? Nah, that’s not the right reason. Guess I will keep waiting for my diamond in this ROUGH world….I just hope she doesn’t take as long as my husband did….
Until next time…I need to keep living life on the plus side, and hope I will befriend someone else does too!!!!